A LETTER TO THAT YOUNG CHAP WHO HAS CHOOSEN TO EARN A DECENT LIVING DESPITE THE SOCIETAL ODDS AND PRESSURES FROM ALL ANGLES.
We live in a dispensation where it is seemingly difficult for young people to want to go through the rigours of being trained to arrive at the destination they so admire.
We live in a time when we admire results so much that we loose sight of the numbers of years that have been invested to arrive at the destination that we see some of these folks attain today. SEYI VODI of Vodi Group is an example.
The likes of Ugomdi Ogbonna alongside the beautiful wife of his youth Angel Sonia Nonyerem Ugomdi-Ogbonna for instance have tarried with the Toskyme Brand from when it was a “needle and thread outfit” to now that it has gone through some processes such that it now effectively serves the high and mighty in the society.
Moreso, do not forget that this is being done from his small corner in Aba Ngwa in Abia State although in a very big way too. Same goes for Ms. Prosper Erem of PROACH Shoes whom I hope that she would get her services right as she is a talented shoe maker.
Now chances are that most young people who are effectively giving their quota to their development on a step by step basis are being mocked by friends especially the females who are blessed to have the type of beauty that attracts the high and mighty to their dm on Instagram, twitter, Facebook and their many other social media handles, always willing to dole out huge sums of money at them at such rates as it makes you the young, consistent, dedicated, hard worker who comes with his seemingly or relative small sum, a huge source of joke when you are placed on a scale with the big boys.
Forget it as they are all over Facebook, instagram, Snapchat, Tiktok, Abuja, Lagos with incredible sizes of boobs, booty, hour glass curves and bottle smooth skin. To such a Lady who most times Oga could give your three (3) months earning in one fell swoop, how do you convince her to see what lies ahead of you or even stay with you as you save towards a few projects which would transform your future?
Such attempt would be self defeatist. So fellow Brothers, zoom in on your choices most appropriately and on time, this is 21st century, remember on a Lady who is trained to see the excellence in people and build with her.
Some of you go home depressed because the Lady you want so badly and wish to be with feels that you do not amount to anything and having been under such pressures, I have seen some fellow young men go to borrow to impress such a Lady who doesn’t see anything with you beyond the now. Some of us even tell lies that quakes the pit of hell just to have an access. Arụ ọ dịkwa gị?
How long would you sustain yourself with such lies, Onyeoma?
The fact is this and it is clear, anyday you start competing with the young men on the street who earn their money in stacks or the sugar Daddies who give them a certain kind of luxury more than you can ordinarily afford, that remains the day you dig your grave for a rough internment and be rest assured to have us attend your funeral.
As a matter of reality, every young person in this 21st century should be deliberate about his hustle, work hard daily at it, create networks that would help you achieve greater results and shut out those Ladies with the types of hips and boobs you only see after they would have undergone cosmetic or body enhancement procedures, in most cases.
When you meet a Lady and all she has to tell you is how much of a low class that you are and all for her at the moment and yet you cannot lay your hand to any meaningful business she does despite her living the Baby girl life, Brother know that even if you are able to win her over with more money, sooner than you think she would shock you and you may well have her in the arms of someone you least felt it would have ever been possible who has suddenly acquired more money than you have.
The summary of this long post is for my Brothers to own their various hustles, transform and innovate daily on that hustle and keep being true to yourself. Look for those 20% that would dare take the risk of priming the future with you and leave ndi slay Mama Official.
Never allow any form of pressure from anyone to ever make you borrow or go against principles that you would have not ordinarily gone against just to please one Lady so that she can give you access to her “sweet in the middle” and all. It’s time to grow beyond that.
Be very deliberate about your interactions with them such that when you are being transactional in your sexual disposition, get it done with as that and move on but I doubt if it is always the best. If you can, please keep to your lane.
If you are looking for something worthwhile with a long term flavour, never you joke with the real Babes who go through the rough times with you before the billions come. The Mrs. Amb Unyime-Ivy King, Mrs. Charity Maduka et al.
These little things matter a lot.. That Babe that calls you a poor boy today because you are not pulling up in a Benz, Lexus and the rest now, ignore her for the time being and go for that which matters, someday she would definitely wish she was a bit foresighted and then you would have every reason to smile..
To thyself BROTHER, BE TRUE!
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