There are truths herein that we may not be too comfortable with. However, please bear with it nonetheless.
Ms. Celine Ndudim and Mrs. Afiba Tandor were plainly unfortunate professionals.
They unfortunately died in their line of duty; it is what it is.
This transaction which took their lives, is a transaction that a million more Ladies embark upon every day of their lives.
Some Ladies reading this might have just returned from visiting random men over the weekend, where they fulfilled their own part of the conjugal service delivery contract. For which they must have been beautifully rewarded.
The Conjugal service rendering sector of the Nigerian economy, is a thriving sector on its own.
No number of occupational hazards experienced on the line of duty by these Ladies, would discourage these professionals from rendering these “all-important services”, once well priced.
Then it becomes a bit more challenging when the prospective client looks as rich, gentle and single as Mr. Andrew of blessed memory.
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Men would always offer their love interests, unimaginable sums of money for “mekwe”, depending on the volume of resources at their disposal and what their fantasies as established men entails.
Some men love to watch Ladies, do they do with themselves while the sit back and enjoy themselves with the scenes.
These scopes of services are not assessed by regular clients in most cases. They are highly priced hence can be afforded by the rich only.
Some men love to play the role of king in the room when they are with some of these vendors.
This offers them the opportunity to achieve multiple ejaculatory phases while taking turns with these women.
Most of these men, know it quite well that these services cost some good money and in most cases they do not mind.
Infact these are services rendered exclusively to the super wealthy.
Some of these men pay these Ladies very well for their services, without harming them, depending on their interest.
Some pay these women well and take their lives straight up. Just as has happened with Mr. Andrew.
It all depends on the side of pendulum; your reality as a service provider swings to.
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Women who are disposed to transactional sex would always go to men that offer them their best bargains. Once they have proposed clients, these Ladies would always be available to sell to them.
It doesn’t matter how Pastor Kumuyi, Adefarasin, Lazarus Muoka, Jerry Eze preach against these things.
This is the reality of the human society and more realistic in a society like ours where hunger and unemployment reigns supreme.
At most, these Ladies would tell you when you dissuade them from such lifestyles, that “El Roi” would make their sail smooth.
Once a Lady is so desperate for financial security but doesn’t see the need to work hard for it, Mr. Andrews and his likes, would always have clients to mete out cruelty on.
This is more about occupational hazards than being a saint in our present Nigerian society. Alot of people are into transactional sex with random men.
While many of us as men, might have benefitted from social media initiated, random spontaneous visit in the past, it doesn’t make such engagements right in any way.
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As a Lady, just know that no matter how security conscious you are, once you are meeting a man, you don’t know so much about, chances are that he could be so nice to you or he could be cruel to you, to the point of feasting on your blood. It is part of the risk laced in the job.
So just know that this is a reality and also know that when such news breaks out of you having died on the line of duty, we would at most sympathize with you but that would always be the most we can do.
Then for my fellow men, who subscribe to the services of premium looking females online for conjugal services, think about this scenario I would illustrate below.
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What would you do or put up as an explanation, if the Lady you brought home, while delivering conjugal services to you, dies in the line of duty?
How would you explain it to anyone that, you are not a ritualist?
How would you explain to anyone that it was only your third leg, that was used to activate the process that led to her death?
While we scream about women following money at all costs, be careful dear man to not have these conjugal service vendors die off carelessly in your space.
It is a level of “steeze” (trauma) you may never recover from.
©Okeh, Onyekachi 2024™.